Doctors, nurses, blood and a whole lot of chaos…

Hi Readers,

Thank you all very much for your patience.  Victor last updated you about an acute health crisis that caused me to be away for awhile from the blog.  I’m sorry if that inconvenienced anyone or caused any concern.  As Victor probably mentioned,  I have an unusual health problem which causes me to be very sensitive (allergic) to a lot of things.  I had a reaction that led to an ambulance ride and a three-day hospital stay.  After that, today I had a pre-admission appointment which turned out to be an (almost complete) waste of time.  My previous hospital stay had revealed some unexpected things about me, which has meant that flags were assigned to my health file.  Those red flags have caused my cardiologist to rethink the minor operation I was supposed to have tomorrow (10 July).  He’s postponed it until he can arrange for two other specialists to attend the operation.  He basically wants backup because he’s afraid that the drugs, the surgery itself, or a lack of good IV access (or a combination of these) will cause a negative outcome! On the other hand, at least it means that we should have all our ducks in a row for the procedure itself.

So now we wait and try to get my symptoms managed until we can proceed with the minor operation.  I need to see a few more people before I’ll be in good enough health to write more consistently.

On the home front, we are still making (an albeit slow) process of getting our house on the market.  We discovered a major drainage issue which is now (thankfully) resolved.  We’ve made a large leap on the packing process and the tidying up process.

We have also spent a bit of time actually looking at what we’d like in our future home build.  We know that we want to prepare for a future in which one or the other of us will be ‘less’ able so we’re planning on building an “accessible” home with double wide doors, bigger hallways (if any), and probably walk-in or wet-area shows.  We will likely do ramps instead of stairs on the entryways as well.  In the short term this makes it easier to get our wee one’s buggy in and out the door, but in the long term, it will make our home safe in our old age.

Keep your eyes out because we’ll likely be putting a post up with our “dream” home blueprint soon.  We may even show you what we decide on when we go to talk with a builder.  We are also close to finding the right land for us.

Stay tuned and God bless you and your household!

~Grace

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Two steps forward, one step back

Dear friends and readers,

Please accept our apologies for this long break. While we have been doing our best to keep this blog updated, the complexities of life have threatened to overwhelm us. We’re surfacing for long enough to give this update.

We’ve posted before about a few days of illness. What we didn’t say at the time is that Grace has been unwell since partway through her pregnancy with Ducky, a sickness that has caused her ever-increasing pain as well as fatigue and heart trouble. After several months of this illness, and multiple doctor’s appointments with no clear way forward, last Friday (29 June) we went to Wellington to see a specialist. While Grace was able to get a provisional diagnosis and start treatment, it was too late to prevent her from becoming so unwell that she needed emergency treatment in hospital.

She is now well enough that she has been discharged, but is still weak, tired and in considerable pain. We are resting at her parents’ place so that we have help with the children, since I am still working full time.

This chain of events hasn’t weakened our resolve. On the other hand, it has strengthened it, for two reasons. One is that Grace’s condition seems to be exacerbated by mould and pollution, both of which are very common in Christchurch during winter. The other is that while we hope that Grace can make a full recovery and enjoy many healthy years, it may be that we face times when she or another member of our family is temporarily disabled. The best way to be able to manage that is to have a suitably accessible house.

At the same time as all this was unfolding, we discovered a feature of our current home that was contributing to our particular mould problem. While we try to keep a clean and dry home, the grounds outside were not so dry, and flooded every time we had a substantial rainfall. I thought this was simply a result of a blocked storm drain, and called in a tradesman to flush the lines. It turned out that most of our storm drains went not to the street, but rather to a device called a “soak pit”. A soak pit is a hole in the ground filled with rubble and surrounded by a filter cloth, which collects water in the hollows between the rubble, from where the water gradually drains away. But over time the filter cloth becomes clogged, and eventually the soak pit stops working. This happened to us during a heavy rainfall last year.

So, in preparation for sale, we have had to get new storm drains put in. In the short to medium term, this will help us to have a better property and a healthier life while we’re there; in the long term, the new owners will have a superior drainage solution.

Peace,

~Victor